Every individual has his / her 'spec' or what attracts them, but there are some attributes that if an African woman should posses, their counterparts won't hesitate to let down their egoistic shoulders. African men are proud. Don't you know? They are very very proud. Because the African culture hasn't totally redeem itself from its original patriarchal self, some African men still posses such ideology, but there are ways to make them ignore it. Some of them are:
1. Be lordly
African men don't like bashful, vulnerable, or ignoble ladies. Do not buy the opposite ideology, it is outdated. When you are amidst them, don't lower your gaze. Look straight into their eyes, relieving your mind from any emotions. Don't shake. Be dignified. Be assertive. Stand on your soles. Be lordly!2. Be Outspoken
Never tolerate their attitudes towards you that are not apt. Disagree against their opinion if you feel it is not suitable. Protect the interest of yourself and your fellow women. Do not let go of their bad attitudes toward you; walk up to them, and rebuke them, if they don't apologize. Be candid with your principles. African men love such women, women that speak out, and challenge them.3. Be Financially Independent
African men love women that can pay their bills themselves. Women that are financially capable. Women that buy the things they want with their sweat. Women that don't beg for 'urgent 2k.' Women that don't spend on men, but only on themselves at their own satisfaction. African men likes women that enjoy "the baby girl lifestyle" from their sweat.4. Climb the Success Ladder with them
African men love women that are up to par with them. Women that develop themselves. Women of high ranks. Women that can think and make decisions. Women that even men look up to. Women that carry an entourage of success. Women that are kings. Women of influence and affluence. Women of high caliber. Women that drag positions with men. African men do not only cherish such women, they love them, because they want mothers who will train their daughters to be such.Get that African Man today😗
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